So I met a gal the other day who is like me, likes to give the HJ but doesn't like to get the HJ. Now this leaves us in a quandry (wait, dictionary spellcheck...) Quandary, while we would both like to go down, neither of us wants the other one to do it. Does this say something about our self confidence? It is a sad state of affairs indeed when we are both so eager and yet not allowed to give so much pleasure. I have always been used to girlies who like to "get" but don't like to "give" but this one says it gives her "a sense of power". She says  she fully "gets" the whole Monica Lewinski dealio. In truth, so do I but for possibly different reasons.

Now this has raised questions and so I am putting them out to all of the bloggers out there.

1- Do we like the head-job or do we not?

2- Are we givers or receivers and if so, do we only give to get? 

3-What do we like about it and what do we not so much?

I am interested to know details of all facets to this question so please feel free to give me all your info/gossip and stories. I look forward to the mail. Buy for now.